Girls that choose bad guys instead of nice and decent men are one of the
most widespread stereotypes of the Western world. We are assured that you can
recollect no less than twenty books and movies that exploit this idea. However, a
stereotype as a scientific phenomenon always has a prototype based on the
empirical reality. Today our team and datingladies.com are about to talk about
most common reasons why girls prefer bad boys to any other kind of men.
1. These guys seem more confident. Let’s decide first - what kind of girls
would choose a bad guy? A girl that underestimates herself, of course.
Some women have low self-esteem and poor self-reliance issues. These
women think that a good man cannot really handle their low spirits.
However, they think the bad boy will treat them as badly as they treat
themselves – and, in the end, it will improve their self-confidence. To be
honest – the male part of our editorial office believes that it makes no
sense at all. Yet, we all know that female logic is sometimes too
complicated for men. As a result, a bad-guy formula in a girl’s mind looks
like this: a guy with robust attitude and confidence can help me improve
my self-esteem. Too bad that it rarely works this way. In 90% of cases, a
bad boy makes a fragile girl submissive to his needs and desires – and she
loses herself completely.
2. These guys are indifferent. Famous Russian writer Alexander Pushkin
says that the less we love the women, the more she is fond of us. This
controversial psychological thesis has somehow been proved by centuries
of dating experience. Likewise, bad boy’s skepticism becomes his rule for
life. He likes to play against the rules and basically do things his way. Such
boys are impossible to bring on to the track, as they are obstinate and
take pride in being rule breakers. Surprisingly, the whole concept of their
exponential indifference makes girls excited and simply turns them on.
3. Bad guys are mysterious. Not every young girl needs to marry and have
kids. There is a huge category of women who just fancy the excitement,
the adventure and the feeling of danger that bad boys are known to
bring. It mainly works for the girls who are raised in the atmosphere of
strict rules and rigorous limitations. In the end, this girl lay herself out to
get all the excitement in the world! Dating a mysterious bad boy is one of
the most effective ways to cast her prudence to the winds. He is mute
about his OBVIOUSLY terrible and thrilling past. As well (and it is more
important), he has no plans to look forward to. He lives for the day – and
a girl wants to be his companion. Teenagers are usually fond of Bonnie-
and-Clyde type of stories. What they do not mention in their dreamy
thinking is that this couple ended up in a truly pitiful way. A girl should
also understand that a bad guy (especially if he is in denial about his
“badness”) is a good choice for a spring break affair romance but he
should not likely become the man of her life.